4 Reasons Why You Should Not Propose To a Nigerian Girl In Public


If you did not have any intent to put yourself under any form of public pressure, then do not propose to your partner in public. It is important to note that your proposal should be planned and if possible scripted. In the course of this article, we will take you through 5 solid reasons you should not propose to your Nigerian girlfriend in public. Without further mouthing, let us delve in.

1  It Does Not Give The Both Of You A Chance To Talk About The Life Changing Situation

It is important to note that proposing to your Nigerian girlfriend it's not an ordinary act, but a life changing situation. And if you want to make a life-changing decision,it is important that you think about it seriously. Where would you allow a bunch of strangers to evade the moment that is meant to be private. If you get married after she accepts the proposal you are going to be living together for the rest of your life. This is one of the reasons why public proposals are a very bad idea in Nigeria.

2. It Puts Your Partner in the Spotlight

It is important to note that when you go out to propose in public you are putting yourself and your partner in the spotlight. All the same there is nothing wrong with being in the spotlight, a lot of people like to get so much attention when they are making big decisions. Some Nigerian ladies find it very romantic when a guy pops the question in public.

Come to think of it,where will you put someone that you truly love in the spotlight without the consent of the person? Public proposals in Nigeria should be made with mutual consent, and you are pretty sure of the answer. If you're not sure of how your partner would respond, pop the big question in a more private venue. This would give your partner enough time to think about the right answer. 

3. It Disturbs a Lot Of People 

Tell me one good reason why I should stop the activities just because one person has to ask you a serious question. Imagine trying to ask someone to be your life partner in Ladipo market, Lagos. Or you are in a banking Hall, and you decide to ask the big question. It might seem romantic but in all honesty,  it is disturbing. The decision of your partner to say yes or no to because that does not in any way affect the people you are entangling in the buzz of engagement. To some people this might appear cute, while some others might find it bothersome. 

4. It Can Create an Awkward  Moment

Proposing in public can be a nice idea, but truth be told, it can sometimes create a very awkward situation. Especially if you have a shy or confrontational partner. Getting a bunch of Nigerian strangers on board with the yes or no of your girl can draw too much attention and tension.

David Livingstone

im David Livingstone, im a freelance writter. i have passion for writing. I use writing as a meduim to express a lot of personal thoughts on life scenarios. started writing at 9 and havent stopped since then. Im also a contract writer at nigeriainfopedia, flashacademy and besthomelytips.

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